To my former Bullies: An open Letter
Spoiler alert: I do not forgive you. There is no use in holding on to hate for other people. Nevertheless, I don't have enough compassion and kindness in my
My Shortest Love Story
I know that after a relationship ends, the smart thing to do is letting some time pass, let wounds heal and make sure you're ready for something new.
Saying YES to everything the Universe offers
The first 'party' weekend after Corona, where I went with the flow, said 'Yes' to everything and was rewarded with fireworks, a secret techno rave and an LSD
Some Thoughts on Gay Pride
Thirty years ago, the WHO stated that homosexuality was no disease. Last year, gender identity disorder was erased from the list of mental illnesses. It is June, aka
Farewell Letter for Chris
I can't believe I am sitting here (again), writing a letter to my former boyfriend. Since I started this blog I have found a strange relief in writing even
Fixing Dumb Inspirational Quotes 5
As soon as Corona hit us, I started seeing lots of 'inspirational' content floating around the internet. Everyone seemed to be looking for some kind of hope. Probably
Becoming a Full-time Design Freelancer
One of my goals this year was to continue living the free-spirited life I've come to love. To make that happen, I decided to become a full-time freelancer.
Memories losing Value
Not that long ago, I planned an exhibition with my friend Jacqueline Kaulfersch - the same friend with whom I held the exhibition Unter die Haut/Beneath the Skin.
Letting Go of Toxic People
I have already written about how it sucks that you will lose friends as you grow up, even the ones that you thought you'd be friends with forever.
Recognizing my Work’s Value
As a designer, it is often hard to draw the line between work and pleasure. Much of what I do isn't as strenuous as other types of work.
A Night we were never Able to Re-Create
I don't remember a lot of days that feel like this one. I remember it as a clear cut. Before it lies the past, after it, a new
I have been fat-shamed and this is my response.
Some details of this story were changed to ensure anonymity. The situation you are about to read is told the way I remember it. Out of nowhere, you told me
Fixing Dumb Tinder Bios
For this week's blog, I thought I wanted to have fun and do what I like to do the most when on the internet: Being a troll. One
Pros and Cons of Monogamy | Part 1
I am currently in a happy relationship, so maybe it is the wrong time to write about polygamy and polyamory, or maybe the timing couldn't be better. I
Pros and Cons of Living in Berlin
My time in Berlin is coming to an end and I look forward to meeting lovely people from home again but leaving here will also be very hard.
Meet the Troll in my Head
In the process of writing for this blog I found an unexpected inner peace when writing about my personal life. As time went by, I opened up more
Beneath the Skin | My First Art Show!
In blogging land it's a common thing to write down New Year's Resolutions close to Silvester. Usually, I'd laugh about the idea of making resolutions but for the
About Age Gap Dating
This short story is a continuation of a past article. When I first met you, I truly didn’t care about how old you were. We met in the last gay
Something New (Short Story)
Not a minute goes by without thoughts rushing through my head. But when I lay my head in the crevasse that forms above your collarbone when you raise your shoulders,
The Truth behind my Weight Loss | Part 1
I hesitated quite a bit to publish this post. But after having written about losing weight, I almost feel like I owe the honest follow-up. This is all
I feel pretty if you don‘t tell me otherwise
One lifetime ago, I had a six-pack. I had just bought a new exercising game when I shaped up. I felt so proud when people noticed. But as
Relationship Expiration Date
Some relationships are meant to last and some are just fun times with an expiration date. That doesn't mean you won't get attatched to that person though. Let
Letter To My Ex | Part 1
I'm still pretty confused about my recent breakup. Probably normal after 6 years. Here is why I need to write it down.