Across the Line (Short Poem)
On the horizon there is a line. It shows me how far I can go, what I am willing to give up, how much I can take, how tall
Quick Thought Tuesday | Depression
For the longest time, I thought I knew what being depressed feels like. Turns out I had no idea until the beginning of the year, after coming home
Fixing Dumb ‘Inspirational’ Quotes 4
When I started collecting dumb Tinder bios (for fixing them up), I also started collecting new dumb inspirational quotes. The last weeks my blog has become a little
What Advice would you Give your Child-Self? | Quick Thought Tuesday 9
I've recently thought about what advice I'd give my child-self if I had the chance to? I'm guessing life is so complicated that I don't know how I'd
What if my Life Plans are all Wrong? | Quick Thought Tuesday 8
I didn't really think about my future and my life-long plans when I started studying psychology and graphic design at the same time. So, now I also don't
My BF dared me…
I don’t remember how this happened but I'm certain we weren't sober. Anyway, around 10PM my man dared me to write a blog post about this night. Like,
About Age Gap Dating
This short story is a continuation of a past article. When I first met you, I truly didn’t care about how old you were. We met in the last gay
Breaking up what hasn’t really started
A couple of weeks ago a colleague of mine asked me how many relationships I've been in in the past. I wasn't sure: in a world of casual
Pros and Cons of the – possibly – Worst Year of my Life
If you’ve been reading my blog for a while, you’ll know that this year was tricky. But to be honest, calling it the ‘worst year’ of my life
We’re all gross, weird and twisted freaks
If we're all freaks with a buttload of baggae, what is there to lose when being honest about our negative side with new partners? Let me elaborate on
Fixing Dumb Inspirational Quotes
Inspirational quotes are like pop music. Sometimes I discover a song that’s mind-blowing and I can’t get over not having found it sooner, but most are shallow and
Running towards Death
Finishing school at 18, studying ‘til the mid-20s, finding a job soon after, the love of a lifetime along the way, getting married before turning 30 and having
Winter’s Depression (+Exciting Announcement!)
I'm trying to find patterns in chaos, trying to figure out my life and the future that lies ahead. When do you stop looking for something new though? Also,
Sexuality as a spectrum
Do you believe that you are born either a girl or a boy? Do you believe that sex and gender are assigned at birth? Do you believe that
Real Life Hacks!
After going through some rough and stressful times, I decided to share a fateful story that got me back on track. Then I remembered some real life hacks
Getting dumped on my birthday
My birthday this year was a disaster, full of drama and without an ounce of happiness. I thought I'd share this story to get it off my mind
The Dark Side of Social Media | Part 1
This post covers the theory behind my master thesis 'The Dark Side of Social Media'. My master study (in psychology) is about how social media affects the users.
Dear straight men, …
An open letter to any straight man who fears being hit on by a gay dude.