When I had my Coming Out
The biggest misconception about coming out as a queer person is that it is a step you take once and then it's done. Coming out is a process
A Moment in Time: Goodbye, Mr. Fisherman
Although 2020 was generally a pretty good year for me, it also contained a lot of drama, bad experiences and painful goodbyes. And even though a fortune-teller had
Landmine (Poem)
goodbye after a whirlwind heist always just one day at a time see you soon casually your recurring nightmare searching me how long can you live the fantasy? we never win if you
6 Healthy Ways to Deal with a Broken Heart: A Work in Progress
I've had my fair share of moments where I had a broken heart, felt lovesick, had a heartache; whatever you wanna call it. Last year in particular was
My Shortest Love Story
I know that after a relationship ends, the smart thing to do is letting some time pass, let wounds heal and make sure you're ready for something new.
Saying YES to everything the Universe offers
The first 'party' weekend after Corona, where I went with the flow, said 'Yes' to everything and was rewarded with fireworks, a secret techno rave and an LSD
Moving on post breakup?
My closet has an empty shelf soon to be restocked again Recycling time and money is that how I take care of myself? Once two, then three, then one I don't know what
Farewell Letter for Chris
I can't believe I am sitting here (again), writing a letter to my former boyfriend. Since I started this blog I have found a strange relief in writing even
A Tinder Date without Touch and more Quarantine Stories
Bilingual Blog Post | German + English Die Welt, die wir mal kannten ist nicht mehr: Wir befinden uns in einer sonderbaren und nie dagewesenen Zwischenwelt. Weil wir isoliert
OCD in Times of Corona
Ever since I have had OCD, all I did was trying to hide that I have OCD. When I felt 'dirty' I disinfected my hands secretly because nobody
Nackt bei der Tuntenball-Eröffnung
Als ich auf Facebook die Anfrage erhielt, ob ich Teil einer (gestellten) Orgie bei der Tuntenball-Eröffnung sein wollte, hätte ich nicht gedacht, dass ich nach einiger Überlegungszeit zustimmen
Memories losing Value
Not that long ago, I planned an exhibition with my friend Jacqueline Kaulfersch - the same friend with whom I held the exhibition Unter die Haut/Beneath the Skin.
Fixing Dumb Tinder Bios 2
The last time I fixed dumb Tinder bios, I received overwhelmingly positive feedback and had so much fun doing it, I decided I wanted to be an internet
My Top 10 LGBT+ Movies and TV Shows
LGBT+ movies and series are what made me survive my teenage years. I didn't know anyone I was gay for a very long time. All I had was
Toxic Behavior on Dating Apps
Hey. Hey. Wanna fuck? Sry, no. On my way to work. So? So, I'm on my way to work. Well fuck you, you faggot face. This is a loose translation of an actual conversation my
I’m in a Friend’s Music Video
Back when I first started seeing my boyfriend, a kind friend of mine had the plan to make a music video for her singer-songwriter project ÄNSI. I was
The Best (and Craziest) Songs from Crazy Ex-Girlfriend
One of my favorite TV shows I always like to advise other people on watching is Crazy Ex-Girlfriend. It's a Dramedy show (more on the side of comedy)
Fixing Dumb Tinder Bios
For this week's blog, I thought I wanted to have fun and do what I like to do the most when on the internet: Being a troll. One
‘Lost&Found – People Edition’ at a huge carnival party without a working phone.
We were sitting in the tram and laughing about how a friend thought she had ordered an Ukulele off of Wish but actually just ordered a Ukulele strap
Exploring the Spectrum of Open Relationships | Part 2
Just like every monogamous couple is different from the next one there is not one single form of a poly-relationship. Talking to friends and acquaintances, I have gotten
Pros and Cons of Monogamy | Part 1
I am currently in a happy relationship, so maybe it is the wrong time to write about polygamy and polyamory, or maybe the timing couldn't be better. I
Some Thoughts on Sex Work
There are these kinds of nights where I'm hanging out with friends, chilling (probably stoned) and someone starts asking morally ambiguous questions, like 'Would you watch a politician
A Surreal Reunion
It's been a shit day coming home for Christmas. Every possible thing to go wrong did go wrong. However, as a believer in fate, I also believe that